Mouth is Sealed

I was deeply hurt few days back when he made a mean comment on the little child whom I love. What a child is born with has got little connection with what his/her parents have said. If it's what his/her parents have done, yes, I do believe. It's karma. She barely said anything, I suppose. I know her, though not like BFFs but hey I can bet my perky B that she didn't have any mean intention. Why can't he open his 'siham'-like mouth to say something? Is it really difficult to say something and to get away with it? Sometimes to not speak creates more misunderstanding. Sometimes to speak creates misunderstanding too. So in that case, why can't he say anything? I'm sure the languages that he speaks don't sound so alien to her, right? Now I can't help but to think about it. What if it backfires? Sometimes it's difficult living with an alien.